Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 4: The Choice and The Connection

Nikki and Adam were excited as they loaded up their car for their hour long ride to meet Katie, the birth mother who had selected them earlier that week . Before Adam started the car, they both closed their eyes, held hands and prayed. Saying a Rosary, they prayed for Katie, they prayed for her family and they prayed for their own family. Faith filled [...]

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 4: The Choice and The Connection 2017-06-12T15:05:29+00:00

Unselfish Love: Our Adoption Journey Part 5: The Photo Shoot

Nikki was up early, enjoying her quiet time and thinking about Katie and her son Ryder. The past several weeks had been a whirlwind of incredible conversations, moments and lifelong connections. Nikki was amazed at how well all the children were getting along, especially Ryder and Michael. It was if Katie and Ryder had always been a part of their lives. Six more weeks until [...]

Unselfish Love: Our Adoption Journey Part 5: The Photo Shoot 2017-06-12T15:02:28+00:00

Unselfish Love: Our Adoption Journey Part 6: Katie, Waiting and Supports

Three weeks until her due date and Katie was ready. In fact she was more then ready! The doctor said she was doing great, but as she wrote in her journal and counted the contractions and minutes in between, she was done being pregnant. Braxton Hicks again, she was sure. Katie secretly believed that little Shane was just crouched down in her uterus planning to [...]

Unselfish Love: Our Adoption Journey Part 6: Katie, Waiting and Supports 2017-06-12T14:57:21+00:00

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 7: Waiting, Nikki & Adam

As Nikki walked quickly down the grocery story aisle, she glanced at the phone she had set on top if her purse just to ensure she had not missed any calls. She stopped by the produce department to make sure she had her sound up loud enough.There was no way she was going to miss “the call” from Katie telling her she was in labor [...]

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 7: Waiting, Nikki & Adam 2017-06-12T14:56:33+00:00

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 8: Its Time

Katie had everything planned completely. Her mom, Kathy, and best friend, Kirstie, would take her to the hospital and her friend, Jessica, a photographer, would take pictures throughout the delivery. Her brother would watch Ryder. Her bags were packed, and she had been ready for weeks throughout her numerous Braxton Hicks episodes. Katie would close her eyes and imagine the scenerio: her hair clean and [...]

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 8: Its Time 2017-06-12T14:55:41+00:00

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 9: Shane’s Arrival

As Nikki put on her gown she kept praying that Katie and Shane would be okay. Katie was struggling as she felt like she just could not breathe, and she kept gasping for air, yelling "I can't breathe! I can't get air!". The doctors were scrubbing and ready to begin on the other side of the curtain which separated Katie and Nikki from seeing the [...]

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 9: Shane’s Arrival 2017-06-12T14:54:33+00:00

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 10: Time Together

"He is finally here!", thought Nikki, as she looked at his beautiful perfect fingers curled around her own. Katie was resting next to her in her bed and Adam was at the hotel, hopefully sleeping. From the moment Shane had arrived, Katie had told them it felt like he was their child right from the start, so she left Nikki in charge of all his [...]

Unselfish Love, Our Adoption Journey Part 10: Time Together 2017-06-12T14:50:39+00:00

A Birthmother’s Reflection: Ashley

Ashley came into the McDonalds, anxiously looking for someone who "looked" like an Adoption Case Worker. She ordered fries and a soda and found a seat in the back of the fast food restaurant where she could watch everyone coming in. The Case Worker she spoke to sounded nice on the phone and she answered all her questions with out cutting her off, even when [...]

A Birthmother’s Reflection: Ashley 2017-06-12T17:41:41+00:00

Our Adoption Journey: Tim & MaryAnn

Our story begins in 2000, when we contacted Adoption Associates to discuss our options regarding Adoption. We joined the China program and were blessed when our daughter was placed in our arms in January 2002. Our son was 6 six years old and our new daughter was a year old. We thought our family was complete. There was, however, another plan for us. In 2004 [...]

Our Adoption Journey: Tim & MaryAnn 2017-06-12T17:44:11+00:00

Birth Mother Reflections…Looking Back Twenty Years Later

In many ways some of us are very similar. We have had our hearts broken, walked through fire, and lived to talk about it. My story starts as a little girl growing up. I attended a Christian school and my family attended church twice every Sunday. I had a great upbringing, never lacked for anything……until 1988. I was ten years old. It was a Sunday [...]

Birth Mother Reflections…Looking Back Twenty Years Later 2017-02-24T00:17:55+00:00
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